Tuesday, 27 May 2014

"Falling Back Up Again"

We learn so much every time we fall and sometimes the outcomes of climbing back up again surprise us.

I have always been a big believer in determination, if you haven't fallen, you're not reaching your full potential yet. While I have been working in Taiwan, I have definitely stumbled a few times which cultural differences in work dealings, having supervisors tell me off for crappy work that some else did, etc. But let's just take it all in stride! This video is truly brilliant, and really reinforces my beliefs about not giving up! (Since it's not a Youtube video, I can't embed it in this post, so you'll have to click on it to watch it, sorry about that!). 

http://news.distractify.com/culture/a-runner-fell-in-a-race-but-then-she-got-back-up-and-taught-everyone-a-major-life-lesson/?v=1

Sunday, 25 May 2014

Multicultural Debate: Religious Schools

I think for too long Australia has been overly diplomatic about multicultural matters that it stunts our true understanding of each other's culture/s and/or belief/s. From this article alone, it is difficult to assess whether there is a right or wrong; and reading through the comments, while I don't agree with everything, it's good to see there being honest opinions and debate. I definitely think you're onto something here, truly job well done Rhian Deutrom! Thank you! 
http://www.couriermail.com.au/news/queensland/principal-of-redlands-college-mark-bensley-transfers-muslim-student-teachers-after-they-wear-hijab-to-school/story-fnihsrf2-1226930481260


I myself attended a Catholic High School and while my parents are buddhist, they have never forced me into any religion. Having visited Malaysia and Singapore, I've met lots of Muslim friends and while I don't agree with all the teachings, I still think it's interesting to learn about it. I think people mistake "not appreciating a culture" as "racisim". But I think with different cultures, you don't have to appreciate it, you just need to understand it. Understanding is the first step towards reducing ignorant actions in society.

Thursday, 15 May 2014

Copping someone else's load.

It's weird. Today I got told off at work regarding the lack of quality in a document that we were supposed to send out to a client. Thing is, I didn't produce that document at all. At first I was annoyed about having to stay back because I had been intending to go home early to nurse my sore throat and building headache. I stayed back and finished the document according to their specifications and just got home at 10pm with two of my fellow colleagues. For some reason, I'm actually really happy now. Despite the accusation, I've unexpectedly learnt more things by picking up after someone else's grunt. I guess if we live with the intention to learn then it doesn't matter how others see us. (Also, on another plus side, I get to do the graphics art for a concert, one of our clients is a prominent Taiwanese rock singer, consider him the Bruce Springsteen of Taiwan!) 

Wednesday, 14 May 2014

Laundry in another CIty

People interested in high density living: In Taiwan, the balcony area's main purpose is for laundry and when there is not enough space, an extension rope gets suspended above ground. Amidst my slight sickness (sore throat and slight headache), I almost drop my laundry down a six storey pit which I have no idea how to access, might have to holler out to the people on each level to pass it back up? Australia, you sparse heaven with an abundance of ground level laundry space! On the plus side of this laundry arrangement in Taiwanese apartments, it teaches you to be pretty coordinated and have quick reflexes even when you are sick. So why am I so caught up over one shirt? Because my male colleague commented the other day, "Alice, for a girl, I've noticed you only have six shirts."

His observes correctly...and creepily.




Wednesday, 7 May 2014

Meeting New People: Brandon Gray

Don't you agree that a good conversation should not be prescribed who's turn it is? Let the other person finish expressing all their energy, passion and ideas properly. I do this for you because later I do not want to be abruptly cut off later when it's "your tun to talk". The time spent on forced flows of dialogue, we might as well be silent and humming a tune. 

你會不會認同聊天不一定要把輪流當做順需?

A revelation in the chat of BG's Shangrila Hotel, had the most massive chat that went from 8pm-3am. Love moments like this, meeting cool people having great conversation!

Monday, 17 March 2014

Taipei - Day 1

2014, it's become a common theme that I travel and have a great time but then become too tired to document it in a diary/blog. I've had the most amazing/tiring first day in Taipei, I do not really want to leave. Lucky I am not leaving anytime soon. But main question: How important is it to document travels?

Interesting people I met and had conversations with today:

11pm -7am: Dr Chen the Dentist: I was seated in 7A, the seat right next to the emergency exit on the flight from Brisbane to Taipei. Thanks to Nick Chang, who I didn't know worked at the airport who changed my seat 3 times and got me to the awesomest seat ever. We were the first 2 people to get out of the plan after the business class passengers. Dr Chen frequently travels between Brisbane, NZ and Taipei so knows the ins and outs of his seat (7B) very well. He even knows quite well the ins and outs of the seat equivalent on the Eva Air jets.

Bob Witworth: Met him on the transfer bus. He's from Gympie of all places! And donated some pine planks to Woodford last year. He was teaching me how to spot hoop pine in the Taiwanese landscape. Hoop pines are native to Australia but thrive surprisingly well in Taiwan.

8am:'Annoying "Egg" Man from the States': An egg is someone who is Caucasian but only likes and targets Asian females mostly in a creepy way. If it is merely an informed personal preference, fair enough. But if it is a fettish derived from ignorance, then that is gross. This man singled me out this morning and asked me:

"Why do you speak English? None of the other people here do, they only speak Mandarin."
Me: "Well, it is their country, not ours."

Howard Huang (East Tone Mobile Attendant): Very helpful and gave me insights on how the service industry in Taiwan are used in many case studies in international service training programs as exemplars of what to do.

Receptionists at Hostel: Haha, they are all so hilarious. One of them gave me lots of good tips about not getting gipped by local employers, she's a graphic designer too. And the whole gaggle of them (about 6 of them) started giving me tips about house searching and hot guy searching. They are helpfully hilarious.

Kai: Shop Assistant at "Rice Revolution" who was giving me samples if fruit vinegar so that I could decide on which one I wanted. He studies Production Studies and is quite an all rounder explorer of the universe. He's invited me along on a Matsu Agricultural Blessing Pilgrammage next weekend! Apparently we have to walk for 35 hours straight! Very much looking forward to it. We've got each other on Facebook now!

Robin Winkler: www.winklerpartners.com. <--- Read that and it is only the beginning. We only had a brief exchange at 'Rice Revolution' when he gave me his card but he seems like a really cool soul.


Saturday, 15 March 2014

Periodicals: Being a Modern Female

I've noticed that my period doesn't really come in regular cycles as it is supposed to. So how do I know when I'm going to get my period? Every time I do something extreme. Especially in situations where periods are the last thing you need. For the past few months, I've had my period when I was doing bare cliff face rock climbing on two separate occasions and once when I was travelling alone in freezing Europe (Munich) with a migraine lugging my luggage around in the dark streets trying to look for my hotel which doesn't operate its reception on a Sunday (holy day). And now I'm about to move to a new country by myself, I fly out today AND I just got my period. Great, fun times ahead.

I openly talk about when I have my period. Not because I like to gross people out. Some males I know have commented on the fact that it's "over sharing". Heck, I've merely stated that I have it, I haven't even gone into any graphic detail yet.

Why do I state it? Because it's normal. It's a normal part of being a female. And I see it as a courtesy to tell others I have my period so that in case I say anything offensive, they know not to take it personally.

Control your "period mood" you might say? Men, when you get hit in the balls, it hurts like hell and you feel nauseous for perhaps a few minutes or more, it should not last longer for one eighth of the day. If it does, it's probably not a mere hit in the balls then, in that case, please do go to the doctor and look after yourself! For women, periods last longer than 24 hours, on average it can range from anytime between 3 days - 8days. And it is 'constant' pain throughout the day. Not to mention the paranoia of blood stains on our pants or skirts. On top of that, the hormones really kick in. For the most part, most of us really aren't moody or aggro, we only are when the hormones kick it, we can't control that.

So in our modern society, for women to be on par with men, we need to work equally as hard if not twice. And for some females, depending on their circumstances also need to maintain "traditional roles" of a woman, running a household whilst working. It's hard enough doing either or, let alone both. And on top of that, we get our period. Random abdominal pain (sometimes in other areas too) on top of needing to juggle many things. No wonder we get a bit moody sometimes. It can be stressful, and it can effect our moods, being moody is not our choice, at least it is not mine.

So, that is why if the need arises, I do openly talk about the fact that I have my period. It's only natural and I just want people to understand that it can be straining on us, so please understand. I hope this at least gives some insight into females and our need for a little support during that critical time of the month. Thank you in advance for being considerate :)

Alright, got to finish packing, chat later!